Lady Of the Woods

How to get a man in BED

2007-03-25T23:05:00.000-10:00

Believe it or not, the key to being a great bedmate and enjoying yourself in the sack isn't all about having technicalsex skills. What's essential is being able to let go. In fact, 46 percent of guys surveyed by Cosmo said the one thing they want more of in bed is enthusiasm. "You need to tune out the world and focus your entire body and mind on the erotic experience," says sex therapist Linda De Villers, Ph.D., author of Love Skills. We'll show you how to throw yourself full-throttle into the action.

** Be in the Moment **

It's hard to be unbridled in bed when you're worried about jiggly thighs, squooshy sex noises and whether your man is enjoying himself. To be fully present in the encounter, you have to get into a no-stress, thought-free zone by minimizing any mood-killing distractions. "Turn down the lights so you're not as body-conscious, unplug the phone to avoid interruption and pop in soft music that will inspire your sexual side," says love coach Pam Spurr, Ph.D., author of Make Love All Night and Talk to Him in the Morning.

Then, get in the right mind-set by focusing solely on all the sensations. "Think about how he feels inside you, visualize him going in and out and rubbing against you," says Spurr. "Not only will it help you get into a rhythm with your man, but it'll also make the sex more of a physical, tactile experience rather than a psychological one."

**Make Some Noise**

You may feel silly when an "Oh God, yes!" escapes your mouth during orgasm, but most men love the background vocals. "When you make sounds during sex, it lets your guy know that he's pleasing you, which is a major turn-on for him," De Villers points out.

But how do you go from silent sex kitten to out-loud lioness? To start, don't fake it: If you try to make noises that don't come naturally, you'll feel more awkward. Instead, just start slow. "When you feel a moan coming on, resist your urge to stifle yourself and let it out," says Betty Dodson, Ph.D., author of Orgasms for Two. "You may also want to try saying what's in your head, like, 'That feels so good,' or 'Keep doing that.'" As you become more comfortable being audible, you won't worry so much about what you sound like during an intense, climactic moment.

**Get in the Game**

To truly unleash your inner sex goddess, you have to adopt an assertive erotic attitude and be a proactive participant in the action. Meaning: You need to play the role of bedroom boss and let your man know what you want. "When you take charge of the sexual encounter, you're able to use your whole body and control your own pleasure," says De Villers. "That can't happen when you're pinned underneath him like a dead fish."

So throw your man on the bed, hop on top and ride away until you reach your maximum passion potential. Switch things up by gyrating in circles or thrusting back and forth rather than just up and down. Change the pace or angle of penetration. Not only will the sack session be as wild and crazy as you want it to be, but your guy will get off on your calling the shots too.

Cheap Date tip

2007-03-04T23:43:00.000-10:00

Dating is all about finding out about the other person, if you are on your “best” behavior, the real you won’t be able to shine through. Find out what your date likes, what he/she dislikes, what his/her views are on social issues, and the like. If you are on a date, you should have fun; it shouldn’t feel like a chore. Commonly, the most important step when dating someone is the anticipation moment which refers to your own decisions and also the preparing for dating someone.

Usually, men offer to pay for the date. So, cheap date ideas are very useful to them. For most people, dating and saving money don’t equate. But dating doesn’t really have to be expensive to be fun and memorable. It doesn’t even have to take a whole lot of extra preparation time. What is takes is just a little imagination and some cheap date ideas to break the typical date routine. During the dating process, you should be careful how you handle your money and just spend it within your own capacity. If you cannot afford it, then go for somewhere cheaper or try less expensive alternatives. Try to follow these simple yet effective cheap date ideas.

There are a number of ways to find and look for cheap date ideas, why don’t you try reading in the newspaper or in a magazine. You could also ask someone you know could share an idea they have had. But aside from that, you could also get effective cheap date ideas from the websites around the net. Consider and be open also to any suggestions your partner wants to say about his/her cheap date ideas. Try to listen to her/him and be sensitive to his/her tastes and interests. If you wouldn’t give much importance to his/her interests, you probably won’t enjoy the date.

The three most usual choices for what to do on a date is to set for a candle lit dinner, watch a movie, or watch a public event such as sports game or concert. These cheap date ideas often give the couple several hours of time to enjoy each other’s company. However, if you do these cheap date ideas over and over again, it will lead to a loss of a sense of drama and a loss of a sense of importance of the time spent together. You should remember that we, including your partner crave for a unique idea and something that is out-of-the-ordinary. A new experience raises our awareness and pumps up our interest level. If a couple continues to find new and unusual cheap date ideas, their date would be more enjoyable. For starters, why don’t you try to choose activities which give enough opportunities for communication? Actually, good communication is the most important part of the dating process because couples need to find out each other’s values and interests, couples needs reassurance and the stimulation of each other’s ideas, and the best way to do it is through sharing ideas and views.

Going to a museum is also an excellent place to go for a date, and this could be included in cheap date ideas because they are generally inexpensive. Most museums usually have cafes or are located near restaurants so dining should not be a problem. Cheap date ideas also include going to a beach, a walk in the forest or a search into a cave. These cheap date ideas can you give and you partner time to talk with one another. Remember, a memorable date doesn’t have to be expensive. Just follow these simple and cheap date ideas and you are on your way to living the life with that special person you have always dreamed of.

How to bring back Fire in the bedroom

2007-03-03T07:14:00.000-10:00

OK, how to bring back Fire in the bedroom!

Everyone wants to feel the occasional increased heart rate, sweaty palms and butterfly stomach associated with new love. After all, who can’t use a little romance in life?! We all like to feel special, and that's something a good relationship can contribute to – if you keep it spicy.

In or out of a relationship, if you’ve been dreaming about igniting the flames of passion and adoration but aren’t sure how to make your fantasies reality, I’ve got a suggestions that might help!
Get the adrenaline going...

Medical experts compare the body's response to fear with its response to sexual stimulation. Our hearts beat a little faster and we sweat, probably explaining why people voluntarily sky dive or bungee jump. Taking risks or being scared can be a rush – and when done with a partner it can also be a bonding experience.

However, if you’re not up for adventure sports like jumping out of a plane or skiing a triple black diamond obstacle course (or if you just don’t have the time!), you can still bring a little get up and go to your relationship (or start up ammunition if you're just getting acquainted). For starters, try renting a scary movie and watch it together in the dark. Another idea: go to your local amusement park and ride the biggest roller coaster you can find, upside down loops, straight 90 degree drops and all – just be sure to hold each other’s hands tight!

When all is said and done you'll have had a hair (and thrill) raising adventure together – and you'll take that energy into the bedroom!

My forever lover is my very best friend

2007-03-01T21:36:00.001-10:00

I am learning to see my love partner without distortion; to value her as highly as I value myself; to give without expecting anything in return; to commit myself fully to her welfare. Only then can love move freely between us without apparent effort. It’s unconditional love between best friends.

When we are able to love in this selfless manner, we experience a release of energy. We cease to be consumed by the details of our relationship, or the need to operate within the artificial structure of exercises; we spontaneously treat each other with love and respect. Love becomes automatic.

My forever lover is my very best friend!

I believe that friendship among lovers is essential to unconditional love and is the primary ingredient for a deep and lasting love relationship. I trust her with the deepest murmurings of my soul. She knows the best and the worst of me and yet loves me through and through a friend as well as a lover.

I just love it

2007-02-28T10:23:00.000-10:00

Im not in the mood for any writing...i will just copy one great song of Jimmy Webb. I hope you will enjoy it as i did.

"As we followed in the dance,
Between the parted pages and were pressed,
In love's hot, fevered iron,
Like a striped pair of pants."

There's not much we can say here. Just read it over a couple of times. Yes, this song is the ... of bad lyrics, but this particular passage is breathtaking. ‘Yes babe, you remind me of my wrinkly pants.'

Giving Pleasure

2007-02-28T00:45:00.000-10:00

In love, giving pleasure to your beloved is the ultimate goal. Love is for that. To give pleasure, and make your beloved happy with all you can do. That is the reason, the poets speak about bringing the stars and so on. In love, the lover wants that he/she should make the partner happy beyond wildest imagination.

We have so many occasions when a great amount of unadulterated pleasure can be given. Talking of dinners for two. How many romantic lovers think about it seriously and try ways to make it a memorable affair? How about this? Search around your city. Choose a restaurant that looks and feels romantic right from the word go. Something out of this world or at least very different. Meet up with the manager and ask him about his/her ideas of what will make a dinner memorable for lifetime. Note that we have used the word lifetime memorable.

Get the table decorated with flowers that are the special for your beloved. Ask for exclusive crockery if they have it.Take a table in a corner with soft lights and light romantic music. Ask if the restaurant can spare a waiter only for both of you. Cost be no consideration. Then think of food. Go in your memory and think about all your partner loves to eat. Ask the restaurant to make those dishes even if they are not in the menu.

Hire a music group and tell them the tune to be played- the favorite of your sweetheart. And then, bring your sweetheart to the restaurant as if nothing happened. Suddenly as both of you get down of the car, the band will begin playing and the manager will escort you both to the table, you selected with the special waiter in attendance. Let the band play and let the food come. Let the love flow. You will make it a memorable dinner. Your sweetheart will fall more in love with you for the attention you gave. As said earlier, love is giving, so let the love flow.

Kisses to all!

Do Men Love Strong Females?

2007-02-27T22:02:00.001-10:00

Do men like strong female partners? Or are they looking for, and will be happy with a woman who will easily give up? What do men love in a woman? Are men looking for strength or weakness in their woman? This question must have troubled many women and men alike. Let us try and find out the answer to this.

The choice of a man about his woman will be surely for a strong woman. No man wants a weak woman who easily gives up. No man loves a woman who is always looking helpless and asking for help. Men want their women to be strong, who can act smartly. But they don't want their woman to show this strength to them. As far as they are concerned, men want to be told that they are the bosses and that it is because of their ability that everything is moving properly. Every man wants to be praised by his woman and wants the acknowledgment that he is the leader.

Does it not sound like a paradox? No, it is simple to understand. When a man feels that he commands a woman who is smart and intelligent, he feels good. It is an age old instinct we have inherited from our ancestors. The choice is open for a strong woman. Should she make the deficiencies of her man clear to him or act as if he is the boss. Many women hate to act otherwise and are very frank about their views, whereas others want to have a relationship going on and understand this need of their men and satisfy it.

Maca – the Ancient Inca Herb for Increasing Libido

2007-02-27T08:50:00.000-10:00

Author: Sacha Tarkovsky

Today, more and more people are looking for natural ways to boost their sex drive and Maca the ancient herb of the Inca Indians is more popular than ever.
But are its claims to increase libido all hype? or is there substance to the legend? Let’s find out.

What is it?

Maca, Lepidium meyenii, is an annual plant which produces a radish-like root.
The root of maca can be dried and stored, and will keep for seven years and is cultivated in Peru's Central Highlands.
Maca was highly revered by the Inca according to legend.

Incan warriors would consume Maca before entering into battle.

The story goes that after conquering a city the Incan soldiers were stopped from using Maca in order to protect the conquered women from the warriors powerful sexual impulses.
A great story however is Maca's reputation for enhancing strength, libido and fertility really justified?

The Claims

Maca contains large amounts of vitamins, minerals, enzymes, essential amino acids and contains nearly 60 phytochemicals.
Maca is essentially an adaptogen and therefore adapts to the bodies metabolism and particular needs to achieve an overall sense of wellbeing.
It balances the functioning of the hypothalamus and pituitary master glands it also balances and optimizes the functioning of the adrenal glands, as well as the thyroid and finally, the pancreas.

It is believed that Maca increases and optimizes the levels of oestrogen, progesterone and testosterone in the body.
It is for this reason that many people think Maca is so effective at increasing libido in both men and women.

The reality

Can maca help your libido?

Like all herbs it seems to work for some and not for others.
The best way to find out is simply to try it.
It can certainly do no harm and is natural with nutrients that will help your body and natural wellbeing anyway.

One point to keep in mind

One of the major problems with erectile function is not levels of testosterone, its the levels of nitric oxide, which are crucial to the erection process.

There are better natural supplements that are proven to do increase nitric oxide and if this is your problem, then you should read this more fully in our other writings and the best supplements that are proven to have a positive affect in this area.

Final words

It’s a colorful legend and there are many people who swear by Maca and others who dismiss it.
Our view is try it for yourself, it is nutritious will do you no harm and you can see if it helps your sexual wellbeing to.

My fellow readers

2007-02-26T06:48:00.000-10:00

I'm shy but there should be a beginning,

Kisses, LadyW

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2006-03-11T20:53:00.002-10:00

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